How's life as an escort in London?
Escorts face multiple challenges on a daily basis, from managing their appointments to ensuring their safety while chatting with clients. On this page, we'd like to discuss this field of work and its particularities, to help you achieve an easier and better organised routine.
Tips for your day-to-day as an escort
Working as an adult companion requires strategy, self-care and a lot of management in order to make the most of the opportunities. Keeping that in mind, we've brought a few tips to help you feel safer, organised and find balance in your routine. Have a look!
Safety and Privacy
Check information:
While making appointments with clients, always look for details and double-check references for new clients.
Establish clear boundaries:
Understand what you are willing to do and what you're not, and communicate your boundaries to clients right away.
Protect your identity:
Create an alias to keep yourself anonymous, and only share information you feel comfortable disclosing.
Management and Planning
Manage your appointments:
Improve your time management by using apps or planners to organise your meetings with clients.
Plan your week:
Set aside some time in your week to have a look at your schedule and finances, and plan your days.
Financial responsibility:
Establish financial goals, both for your savings and for long-term plans.
Appearance and Self-presentation
Take care of your image:
What impression you want to leave? Be impeccable with your hygiene and self-care routine.
Dress to impress:
Find a style that works best for you and try to keep up with the latest fashion trends.
Book a photo shoot:
When advertising, good photos and videos will draw more attention to your profile.
Healthcare
Mental health is key:
Therapy and meditation can be very helpful to deal with stress and hard times.
Eat well:
Don't forget to eat! A balanced diet will give you stamina and energy for the day.
Keep up with your health:
Visit your doctor regularly for preventive care and keep track of your health status and test results.
Personal branding
Keep your profile updated:
Make your bio interesting, tell clients about your services, and update your photos often.
Advertise on safe websites:
Choose websites that are known for being safe for both companions and clients.
Create content:
Use your profile or social media to post photos and videos regularly to catch the attention of your audience.
Relationship with your clients
Act professionally:
Be polite and kind by default, but hold your ground and be assertive when needed.
Create genuine connections:
Good customer service can make clients become regulars, improve your reputation and earn you recommendations.
Know when to say 'no':
Don't accept anything you don't want to. Your wellbeing and safety are a priority.
Career development as a companion
Never stop learning:
New skills can add more value to your services, like learning another language or massage techniques.
Be realistic about your goals:
Growing a base of regular clients takes time. Establish clear goals for yourself in the long term.
Networking is a must:
Connect with other escorts, organisations and people who understand and respect your profession.
INTERVIEW
WITH Nina Sag
After teaching Brazilian Portuguese and Spanish for five years, Nina Sag, 38, decided to pursue her freedom and financial independence by pursuing her career as an adult companion.
She's been providing her services for 6 years now, and shares how happy and fulfilling she feels about her work, and discusses the urge for more labour laws and support for escorts.
'I always liked this job. Sure, I could do anything else, but it was a choice. You don't have to explain yourself. Part of it [the prejudice] is our fault, because we don't stand up for ourselves. You rarely hear a girl say, 'I do this job because I like it'. People feel guilty', she says.
The idea of working as an escort lit up for Nina when she compared incomes. Nina tells us that, back to when she still worked with fruit pulps, a whole day of work would make USD 50 at most. Once she became an escort, she realized she could make the same amount in an hour of work. This way, she gradually started to achieve the financial independence of her dreams.
Another stereotype associated with escorts, companions or sex workers is that they don't have a personal life outside their work. Nina is the loving mother of a 15-year-old girl, and different from what most people would think, the teenager understands and accepts her mother's job, even if the process of disclosing and explaining it to her had been difficult at first.
Reinventing yourself
Nina clarifies that, right now, her work as an escort is a part-time thing, since it's been a year since she's started working as brand ambassador and spokesperson for Fatal Model, helping the brand to reach more companions.
Besides that, she's also the host for the podcast 'Acompanhadas' ('Accompanied' in English), aired on YouTube and that receives different guests to talk about sexuality-related themes. Nina tells us about how the biggest name they had at the show was the ex-escort Bruna Surfistinha, and the episode has over 68k views. 'In the end, it's a way to help me in this mission of showing the good side of our profession.'
In addition to her career projects, Nina also volunteers as a sexual therapist, focusing specially in women escorts, companions and sex workers that have been victims of abuse and acquired mental and emotional trauma. The change factor, she says, it's in the personal experience and sensibility she has to handle these cases and situations.
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Frequently asked questions
Yes. Creating your account, setting your provider advert or getting clients on Fatal Model is free. We don't charge escorts any fees for their client appointments.
No. the only information clients see are the ones you add to your profile: such as your working name, services, rates and photos or videos. We ask for your documents to verify your identity, and only that. All of your personal information is safe.
Make sure to keep your profile updated: be it your ratings, services, rates, location. Update your photos and videos regularly as well, and try to post frequently to draw attention from clients.
You can use add a professional contact for clients, such as WhatsApp, Telegram and other social networking apps. Just be careful with scammers and always prioritise your safety!
Yes! Our core values are Respect, Dignity and Safety. We take both escorts and clients' safety very seriously, verifying their identities and making sure Fatal Model is a website safe from violence or scams.
Fatal Model is a website established in 2016, and currently the biggest platform for escorts and companions in Brazil. We have over 35,000 active ads from women, men and trans people! Signing up is free, and we don't charge any fees for the clients or appointments you make.